Forget he’s just not that into you, what do you do when you’re not sure the girl you’re chasing likes you, or not?
There are quite a few obvious red flags you need to keep an eye out when pursuing a woman. Woman generally find it harder rejecting men, so how do you know if she’s just not interested? What if she’s just wants you to back off and you’re not getting the message?
You can’t make someone fancy you, no matter how hard you try, and in the end it’s better to know the truth about where you stand, so that you can make a clean break and move on to someone who likes you as much as you do them.
So, if you have even the vaguest sense that the object of your affection is not reciprocating your feelings same feelings, here are the top red flags to confirm what you’re thinking.[Read: 5 Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship]
Here are some obvious signs that it’s time to move on, cause she’s just not that into you…
She tells you she doesn’t want anything
When a woman says she’s not interested in anything, or tells you, “I’m just not ready for anything right now,” she’s really saying, “I’m just not that into you.” This line is used to let you down easier. As in, Men, Stop Getting Angry When Rejected: She Doesn’t Owe You Anything, 80% of women have previously experienced abuse, anger or name calling in response to kindly rejecting a man, so it’s natural that we try and make it as easy as possible as we fear these reactions.
When she is attracted to you, regardless of hurt from previous relationships, she will pursue or at least make sure your interest isn’t going elsewhere.
She doesn’t really show affection
Does she actively smile when you’re talking, lightly touch you in the midst of conversation, even laugh at your jokes or does she avoid physical touch? If the answer is the latter, this is a sign there is a lack of interest on her part. A woman who’s into you, wants to get close to you, both physically and emotionally.
She’s discovering herself
A woman generally knows from the moment she sees you whether she can see herself with you and while this can change, physical attraction generally doesn’t. If she tells you she’s finding herself, she’s really telling you she’s looking for the person who will make her want to take her mind off the distractions, including finding herself.
She flakes on your plans
If you’re always trying to make plans to see her, and they’re always falling through because she cancels. She’s not that bothered, and wants you to get the hint. When a woman is interested, no matter how busy her schedule is, she’ll make time for you.
She barely messages or calls
When a woman isn’t engaging in an active dialogue with you, not making or returning phone calls or messages or doing so days later, she’s telling you she wants to be left alone. Don’t take this as her playing hard to get. If she’s not initiating the conversation or responding to it, she’s not that interested.
She keeps you at arms length
If she’s “happy being single” or “see’s you better as a friend” she cares about your feelings and appreciates the relationship you have but doesn’t see you as a romantic interest. If you’re in the friend zone, she’s either not physically attracted to you or doesn’t think you’re compatible. Don’t try with this one because you probably won’t get her to change her mind.
She talks about other men, alot
Think about it like this. If you always bring up other women to another woman, don’t you think this would turn her off? It works the same way from the opposite end. If she’s always bringing up other men, she’s either very insecure, very not into you, or both. Either way, this indicates the kind of trouble you may want to walk away from…