Women say they want to date nice guys, but their actions and choices often send a different message. We’ve all been there, sometimes the ‘nice guy’ isn’t for us, and we look for someone with more mystery, someone, well, someone like a fuckboy. Dispelling the myth The issue is in how we use the term nice. When it comes to romantic interest, nice can…
Things are getting hot and heavy in the bedroom, one thing leads to another, and the fateful words are uttered, ‘do you have a condom?’ …and you look at each other with the same expression. No. Does that stop us from having sex? Nope. Instead, you use the pulling out method. The pulling out method is when the guy pulls…
Dating can get boring. It can get monotonous and tiresome, and let’s face it, we usually try to condense things down to just a drink. Going out with a person for the first time is always a little scary. You want to make a great first impression but sometimes you end up ruining it with a boring, dull date. Long…
Relationship weight gain is real, so why do we put on a few ‘love pounds’ when we’re loved up long-term? The number one cause of gaining weight, is by being in a relationship. Wait. What?! Did I hear that correctly? Yep. You heard right – the UK study by Diet Chef showed clear results that being in a relationship beats…
This post is dedicated to Chloe I’ve struggled with this post for a while now. Coming back on occasion to look over it, plan it a little more, then only to leave it again. Let me start by saying, I’m not a quiet person by nature. I am bubbly, talkative and friendly. Whilst others prefer their own company, I ‘recharge’…
There is a reason why the saying ‘once a cheat, always a cheat’ exists, and it’s because some of us are simply hard-wired differently. There are three primary reasons for why people cheat: Individual, Relationship and Situational. ‘Once a cheat, always a cheat’, refers to individual reasons for cheating: qualities about the person that make him or her more prone to being unfaithful.…
Thank you to Isobel, from I Read Before Bedtime for the nomination of the Liebster Award! Isobel is a fantastic freelance writer/blogger whom I’ve known for many years, she writes about all-sorts: food, films, politics, you name it, she can do it! So on to the Liebster Award! What is it? The award is a way to be discovered…
#NSFW For an earth shattering climax Ann Summers have turned to the elements. The addition of strategically placed magnets, inspired by homeopathy, are intended to stimulate and increase sensitivity for out of this world orgasms. On Tuesday 25th July, Never Settle was kindly invited to the launch of brand new sex toy range Magnetize, in the newly refurbished Ann Summers…
Stealthing Stealthing is when a man removes a condom during sex, despite agreeing to wear one, so that he can finish inside the other person without their knowledge. What is it? Stealthing is reported to be on the rise. It refers to the act of deliberately removing a condom during sex, or purposely damaging the condom prior to intercourse without their partner’s knowledge…
The long distance relationship is one which is much discussed, argued, frowned upon, and often thought of as a bit of a joke. Unfortunately, many of us know someone who’s cheated, or been cheated on whilst in the LDR. If we’re honest with ourselves, people care less about if someone is in an LDR and pursue them anyway, they’re often…
Dating someone new can be both exciting and a little scary. In order to find ‘the one’, here are the dating goals you should keep in mind… The dating game is complicated, fun, and sometimes really frustrating. How do you know if you’re barking up the wrong tree? There are certain dating goals which can help you whilst on the…
It can be so tough being newly single, especially after a long-term relationship. Where do you begin? What do you do with all this newfound time? The worst thing about the post-breakup period is that alongside the dulling pain of losing someone, is the new-found feeling of loneliness, and a bountiful amount of time to think. Fundamentally, we all know…
Last week, a new London Underground map was published to help those travelling with claustrophobia or anxiety conditions. As you may know, the worst place for my panic attacks is the tube. I probably have a “bad” panic attack on the tube once a month, and have to actively prevent them everyday. Most days I get to the jellied-legged,…
This Summer, one show in particular has fully taken over both our screens, and our lives: Love Island. It’s the guilty pleasure that everyone is talking about, and let’s face it, it’s ruining our social lives! If you are one of the handful who isn’t glued to their TV every evening at 9pm, then you’re seriously missing out, what…
Who’d have thought it, we’re already six months into 2017! With new years resolutions long past the giving up stage, what’s better than to start afresh, mid year? Six months until 2018, and there is plenty to achieve, experience and do before a new round of mildly unachievable goals are decided upon. After a pretty bonkers first half of the…
“I’m fine”, she says, whilst looking anything but. We’ve all been there, and it’s not the only phrase men have come to fear. Just what does she mean?! Let’s be honest here, us gals aren’t the best at saying it how it is. We can natter for hours on end about our problems, or how one of our friends is…
“phubbing noun the practice of ignoring one’s companion or companions in order to pay attention to one’s phone or other mobile device.” Do you find yourself spending more quality time with your phone than with your partner? Are you uncontrollably checking for notifications and compulsively scrolling through Instagram, Facebook or Twitter feeds while around your SO? It’s a unique problem…
TRIGGER WARNING This article or section, or pages it links to, contains information about abortion which may be triggering or distressing for some Written by an anonymous contributor I met him in August 2016, over tinder. He wasn’t my usual type – I tend to like beardy guys – but really cute nonetheless. We went for a few drinks and…
One of the hardest things for us humans to process, is when someone who we love so deeply, and care for so strongly, doesn’t feel the same way back. Unrequited love is a killer. It seeps through your body like an unwanted poison: a cold liquid spreading through your entire being. Realisation hits, and even though you choose not…
Depression is one of those disorders that, like many, is completely misunderstood. Just think about all the different people you speak to each day: friends, colleagues or even coffee shop baristas. They smile and chat about their weekend plans. Now imagine that on the inside, they’re experiencing crippling headaches, loneliness and persistent negative thoughts. Their energy is so low it was almost impossible…
